Overcoming self-sabotage

Overcoming self-sabotage is one of the most exciting conversations you will ever have, because on the other side of it is the emotional freedom and depth of joy that you were born to have. And the process of breaking through denial, facing your fear, anger, and other difficult emotions, and making peace with your pain is going to lead – step by step – to an ending of the internal war with yourself so that you can step fully into the greatest expression of yourself. So let’s begin…

Do you make a little progress toward your goals and objectives, only to backslide again into old, non-serving behaviors? Are you perplexed by how frequently you get off track and wonder, out of sheer exasperation, why? If you are not moving steadily in the direction of what you say you want, you can be certain that you are sabotaging yourself somewhere.

Whatever form it takes – whether unhealthy behaviors or limiting thought patterns – self-sabotage always diminishes the passion and energy we need to fulfill our dreams. Continue reading “Overcoming self-sabotage”

Reversed Perceptions

We all have issues, as well as undesirable qualities or traits that we don’t like about ourselves. Most of us realize that we are not perfect and that it is natural to have unpleasant thoughts, motivations, desires, or feelings.

When we take ownership of our thoughts we are less likely to project our issues or disowned qualities onto others.

 

We all have issues, as well as undesirable qualities or traits that we don’t like about ourselves. Most of us realize that we are not perfect and that it is natural to have unpleasant thoughts, motivations, desires, or feelings. However, when a person does not acknowledge these, they may ascribe those characteristics to someone else, deeming other people instead as angry, jealous, or insecure. In psychological terms, such blaming and fault finding is called projection.

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Your Perspective – It Makes You Money or Doesn’t

One person will see any setbacks as a reason to stop trying while another person, with the exact same circumstances, will see the opportunity of a problem as a means to learn and improve their situation. Your perspective makes all the difference

In all aspects of your life how you perceive any situation determines how you will react to it.

Any 2 people will see the same situation in different ways. This is the reason police investigating a crime will talk to as many people as possible so that they can get as wide a cross section as possible in order to be able to ascertain exactly what happened more easily.

One person will see any setbacks as a reason to stop trying while another person, with the exact same circumstances, will see the opportunity of a problem as a means to learn and improve their situation. Your perspective makes all the difference.

For many people when they hear something they automatically think of other things they have done in the past and often assume the results will be the same.

It is very important to understand the saying

 

Your past does not equal your future.

Parts of your past may have been great, but…

The most popular kid from high school isn’t necessarily popular now.

The star quarterback in college doesn’t always make it to the NFL.

The childhood TV star often doesn’t make it to the big screen as an adult.

Conversely…

The nerd from high school became Bill Gates or Steve Jobs.

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Where are you now?

It is important to regularly stop and spend ½ a day or even a full day, away from distractions to take a stock-take of your life and work out ‘where you are’ in your life and “where you want to go” in your life.


It is important to regularly stop and spend ½ a day or even a full day, away from distractions to take a stock-take of your life and work out ‘where you are’ in your life and “where you want to go” in your life. Although many people stop and make New Year resolutions, it is not necessary to do this once a year on New Year’s Eve. It can be done anytime and it is beneficial to do it a couple of times a year.

 

It is like trying to drive from one point to another along a route that you have never traveled before. The first thing most people do is consult a map to work out where they want to go and the fastest and most efficient way to get there. Living your life in a deliberate way and achieving your goals is exactly the same. When you have a map, you are much more likely to get to where you want to go and to do this you need to know where you are now.

 

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Upgrade Your Brain

How would you like access to information that can help you to succeed in every area of your life. Maybe you need to “Upgrade Your Brain”

How would you like access to a variety of information that can help you to succeed in every area of your life from your financial life your personal relationships or your health.

If you click on the picture below you will get instant access to a number of videos and audios that you can work through that will help you “Upgrade Your Brain” to help you become successful in these areas as well as other areas of your life.

This will give you the tools then you just need to take the first step and take the action required.

 

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212 Degrees – The Extra degree

At 211 degrees, water is hot. At 212 degrees it boils. And with boiling water, comes steam. And steam can power a locomotive.
One extra degree makes all the difference.

At 211 degrees, water is hot.
At 212 degrees it boils.
And with boiling water, comes steam.
And steam can power a locomotive.
One extra degree makes all the difference.
And, the one extra degree of effort
in business and in life… separates
the good from the great!

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The Most Fulfilling Road – Finding Your Next Step in Life

There are many ways to discover what the next step on your life path should be. If you are someone who seeks to satisfy your soul, it is vital that you make this inquiry. Often, your inner voice will counsel you that it’s time for a change,

It is when you are willing to listen to yourself and be fearless that figuring out your next step becomes easy.

Our lives are made up of a complex network of pathways that we can use to move from one phase of life to the next. For some of us, our paths are wide, smooth, and clearly marked. Many people, however, find that they have a difficult time figuring out where they need to go next. Determining which “next step” will land you on the most direct route to fulfillment and the realization of your life purpose may not seem easy.

There are many ways to discover what the next step on your life path should be. If you are someone who seeks to satisfy your soul, it is vital that you make this inquiry. Often, your inner voice will counsel you that it’s time for a change, and it is very important to trust yourself because only you know what is best for you. Personal growth always results when you let yourself expand beyond the farthest borders of what your life has been so far. When figuring out what your next step will be, you may want to review your life experiences. Continue reading “The Most Fulfilling Road – Finding Your Next Step in Life”

Dodging And Deflecting

One of the most difficult challenges in life is learning not to take things to heart and hold on to it.

Let It Roll Off Our Back

One of the most difficult challenges in life is learning not to take things to heart and hold on to it.

Especially when we’re younger, or if we’re very sensitive, we take so much of what comes our way to heart. This can be overwhelming and unproductive if it throws us off balance on a regular basis. When we are feeling criticized or attacked from all directions, it becomes very difficult for us to recover ourselves so that we can continue to speak and act our truth. This is when we would do well to remember the old saying about letting certain things roll off us, like water off a duck’s back. Continue reading “Dodging And Deflecting”

How the Little Things Can Give You Healthier Relationships

If you ask anyone who has been able to sustain a healthy relationship for thirty years or more how they’ve done it, they’ll almost always give you the same answers. They’ll tell you that the minor things that most people take for granted are what make all of the difference in whether or not a relationship lasts and is healthy and meaningful. These are things like: small acts of service, open communication, good listening and teamwork in resolving conflicts.

If you ask anyone who has been able to sustain a healthy relationship for thirty years or more how they’ve done it, they’ll almost always give you the same answers.  They’ll tell you that the minor things that most people take for granted are what make all of the difference in whether or not a relationship lasts and is healthy and meaningful. These are things like: small acts of service, open communication, good listening and teamwork in resolving conflicts.

While many of these things might seem like common sense, they are not commonly practiced because they seem minor in comparison to things like faithfulness, financial responsibility, common values and honesty. This article will share how these seemingly minor details can make a major difference in the endeavor to build healthier relationships…

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What is so good about living a balanced life?

In this interview with Jay McLean we discuss the importance of living a balanced life and how this lets us achieve a sense of happiness, success and contentment that we all want.

Whether we are after more money, a better job or a more satisfying relationship what we are really after is this sense of satisfaction that is achieved when our lives are in balance.

In this interview with Jay McLean we discuss the importance of living a balanced life and how this lets us achieve a sense of happiness, success and contentment that we all want.

Whether we are after more money, a better job or a more satisfying relationship what we are really after is this sense of satisfaction that is achieved when our lives are in balance.

John and Linda Ballis

For more helpful tips on balancing your life revisit this blog regularly, www.wheeloflifeblog.com or go to our website www.wheeloflifebook.com and purchase our book “The Wheel of Life’s 8 Keys to Success”


What is the effect of balancing your life?

Here is an interview conducted by business coach Jay McLean from “Life Masters Now” where we discuss why we wrote our book “The Wheel of Life’s 8 Keys to Success” and the very powerful effect balancing our own lives has had on our relationship, health and finances.

Here is an interview conducted by business coach Jay McLean from “Life Masters Now” where we discuss why we wrote our book “The Wheel of Life’s 8 Keys to Success” and the very powerful effect balancing our own lives has had on our relationship, health and finances.

Please enjoy and let us know what you think and what steps you are going to take today to start balancing your own lives.

John and Linda Ballis

For more helpful tips on balancing your life revisit this blog regularly, www.wheeloflifeblog.com or go to our website www.wheeloflifebook.com and purchase our book “The Wheel of Life’s 8 Keys to Success”


Jay McLean interviews John and Linda Ballis

This interview is part of an exclusive interview series conducted by Jay McLean with the leading Life Masters sharing easy-to-understand and easy-to-apply strategies for taking control of your life and finding a true balance in all areas of your life.

By revealing the strategies for you to apply towards your overall life, this will create true clarity about your goals and outcomes in all aspects of your life from health, wealth, family, spiritually etc…


John and Linda Ballis

For more helpful tips on balancing your life revisit this blog regularly, www.wheeloflifeblog.com or go to our website www.wheeloflifebook.com and purchase our book “The Wheel of Life’s 8 Keys to Success”


Knowing Better Now

The Past in Light of the Present

When we look back at the past, knowing what we know now, we often find it difficult to understand how we made the mistakes we made. This is because once we learn new information, it is nearly impossible to reenter the headspace we were in before we learned that information. And so we look back at parents who spanked their kids, for example, and wonder how they could have thought that was a good idea. Similarly, our personal pasts are full of mistakes we can’t believe we made. We did things then that we would never do now, and this is precisely because we have information now that we didn’t have, or weren’t able to access, then. Continue reading “Knowing Better Now”

How the Wheel of Life can help you

More and more people you meet have an indefinite feeling of unease, that their lives might be unbalanced, that maybe they should change something. However they are not sure exactly what to do.

There doesn’t really seem to be a pattern as to who feels it, but there is a sense that things are not right. It is difficult to put ones finger on exactly what is not right, and people are not sure how to make the feeling go away. Continue reading “How the Wheel of Life can help you”